A Time for Sharing: Thursday May 29th

Tom Hunter

For information about Tom Hunter, his ideas, and his music, visit www.tomhunter.com.

Tom Hunter left all of us a legacy of celebration, music, compassion and giving to our communities. Throughout his lifetime, Tom worked with people of all ages and backgrounds to teach new ways of learning and living. We all are committed to "keeping it going" by remembering his smile and his music and his voice.

There was a tremendous outpouring of support for the Hunters during this transition, and the family is deeply grateful.

TOM'S HEALTH

Tom Hunter was diagnosed on May 20, 2008 with Creutzfeldt-Jacob Disease and died on June 20, 2008.

On September 2, 2008, a letter from the National Prion Disease Pathology Research Center confirmed that Tom had what's called 'sporadic CJD' (sCJD). His was an extremely rare type of sCJD that one in 4.5 million people are diagnosed with annually. We're very grateful that he did not have the inherited form, but it's critically important that a cure for all forms of CJD (caused by scrapy proteins in the brain which can take up to 40 years to manifest and kill their victims) are found. All forms of CJD are fatal.

The most accurate and up-to-date site for learning about CJD and supporting efforts to find a cure is http://www.cjdfoundation.org/ .

DONATIONS

Please help provide financial support by sending whatever you can. We are hoping for lots of $25. hugs- or whatever works for you - to help the Hunters with medical and transition expenses. They also want to protect the wetlands, forest and farm* that have seen so much of their love over the years and to help keep Tom's work alive in the world. (*Contributions given specifically for the mortgage have been moved with overwhelming gratitude to the new Tom Hunter Memorial Account described above.) If you wish to make a donation please make checks payable to Tom Hunter Family Donation (or to Tom Hunter Memorial Account) and mail to:

Whatcom Educational Credit Union
PO Box 9750
Bellingham, WA 98227

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Words from Tom's Dad

May 26
Somebody noticed what you did today
Somebody noticed little things along the way
How you watched how you listened to what children do and say;
Somebody noticed what you've done alway
'Tis grace has brought us safe thus far,
And grace will lead us home.

May 29
And the Angels took care of him.

May 31st
The Lord bless and keep you. The Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious unto you. The Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you, your family, the city of Bellingham, and the world, peace-- both now and forevermore. Amen

For my dad
May 20, 2008

Here I sit, feeling my feet on the floor
An image of grounding you’ve used lots before
Trying to make sense of this surreal, difficult time
While loving where I came from with infinite pride

It’s been amazing how many lines from your songs
Have been lights in the darkness when it all feels wrong
Have comforted, questioned, been profound and fun
Your capacity for humanity is second to none

This world is a better place because of who you are
And that’s known widely – near and far
In music, education, and matters of the heart
You’ve bettered lives right from the start

I’m so proud of you, of where I’ve come from
You’re a huge part of me and have taught me a ton
About being human, love, laughter, and tears
And how to keep going despite life’s fears

Please don’t worry about the rest of us
We’ll take care of each other and will always feel your touch
Your laughter, music, compassion, and voice
Will always be with us in the midst of life’s noise

So here I sit, feeling my feet on the floor
With love and gratitude deep down in my core
I’m so grateful for the time we have had
You’ll always be my mentor, my best friend, my dad.

-Aeden

Laugh Lines

i’ve always loved your laugh lines,
the way you smile ear to ear
and you always have this easy way
of crushing any fears.
we’ve shared so much so far in life
and i’m so proud and glad
that i can say with confidence
i have the very best dad.

from raspberries to hasty moves
and the cutting edge again?!
to times when you have comforted me
over troubles with my friends.
you know how to relieve the weird feelings
when things don’t feel quite right
you let me put them in your hands
and throw them into the night.

we’ve shared trees against the sky
and books, poems, songs and walks
you taught me respect by looking again
and i’ve always loved our talks.
from dream stories to lake padden eagles
and coloring outside the lines
i can say with ease and confidence
you have the most lovely mind.

i remember all those wakeful nights
and running down the hall
you and mom sang lullabies
and sound asleep i’d fall.
i’m your goofball now—
i’ll always be whether we’re near or far
i’ll hold you close in who i am
no matter where we are.

i know it’s getting harder
to take in this fantastic world
just know i love you—i always will—
as daddy’s little girl.

Irene

"I've been visiting schools to sing songs for almost 30 years. I've been in a lot of classrooms, presented a lot of workshops, talked with a lot of teachers, and sat on a lot of floors with kids. If I bring reminders of what's important in education, they come from finding those moments when the heart shows up, moments that peek around the corner and need to be invited farther into the room so we can see them. Such moments might seem ordinary but they are way too important to be captured in test scores. They fill teachers (and sometimes children) to overflowing."

Quoted from Tom's introduction to his book of essays : "Visits to the Heart of Education: Remembering What's Important" (available from Song Growing Company - see link below)

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Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Thursday May 29th

45 comments:

Anonymous said...: Good morning, Tom. It's an early spring morning here in Maine and I have been waking up thinking about you every morning since I heard the news about your journey. What amazing syncronicity that our 1970 women's consciousness raising group from Union was gathered at my house this last weekend so that we could all share our sadness and our love for you together! Linda Clark, Barbara Gerlach, Carter Heyward, Sarah Bentley, Emily Jean Gilbert and Maurine Doggett were all here for two days. Since leaving, we have all been spending time with you on your blog this week. How wonderful to see the photos of your beautiful family and your beautiful, laughing face! The music pours out of you even through a photograph! I hope you know that you are held by a huge web of love, connecting everyone you have ever loved and who has ever loved you. We are there with you in prayer and in spirit, even from the East Coast. Thank you so much to Gwen for the daily updates about your journey. Our love will travel with you, and will continue to surround your family. Many, many blessings and thanks, Susan; May 29, 2008 at 3:38 AM
Anonymous said...: Hi Tom,
I am listening every day to the old tapes (Windows, Music is Magic, I Have a Box) that you did for kids so long ago. I have used those in my classroom for the past 20 years and they provide so much joy and energy for all of us. Thanks for always giving us music!

I have also been reading the TT journals from our summers in New Mexico over 35 years ago. Most of the stories that make me laugh include something you did or said to Becky, our rock hound. The music of those summers brings forth some of the most important memories I have. Love, Molly; May 29, 2008 at 7:29 AM
Unknown said...: Dear Friends: I have not had the privilege and pleasure of meeting Tom, but I feel as if I know him through his music. What a great soul! What a strong and life-giving spirit! Please know that I am holding Tom and all of you in the Light as the days go by. With many blessings, Parker Palmer; May 29, 2008 at 7:40 AM
Anonymous said...: I am a teacher at Nooksack Elementary and have enjoyed Tom's music in my classroom for years. I feel so fortunate to have the experience of Tom walking into my classroom with a smile on his face and a guitar in his hand (and possibly a toy made out of wood). But one special exchange I had with Tom was last year when he sang at our church (Trinity Lutheran) and I had a conversation with him about my son playing guitar. Well...shortly after that, my son started guitar lessons and is still loving every minute of it.
Thank you, Tom!

Debbie Jones; May 29, 2008 at 8:32 AM
Anonymous said...: A "bonus verse" for the song "Love Heals":
He's sung for 40 years, and he wrote 1000 songs, and he's touched more lives than anyone can count.
He sings 'bout growth and loss, and how God loves every soul,
and he lifts up the down and out.
He'd hate this added verse, 'cause it focuses attention on him and not the world he feels.
But Tom, we gotta thank you for living out the truth: in all things, love heals.

Thanks again for everything.

Dirk; May 29, 2008 at 9:16 AM
Anonymous said...: dear tomhunter,

it's a cold grey morning on whidbey island. the rhodies are coming to the end of a bloom season that was beyond beyond. the rabbits are helping themselves to my roses and my peas. the birdfeeder is full up with nuthatch, chickadees, finches, grosbeaks, towhees, juncos, young red squirrels, chipmunks, and one rat who just won't give up. every time i turn around everything green is taller.

i've been reading this blog since day one. crying, listening, looking at the pictures. i ask myself... how did i get so lucky to be part of such an incredible loving community, one that just seems to keep on growing, like everything else this season? and i think, well, when all is said and done, isn't being lucky mostly about being willing? i'll add my voice to the chorus.

you're in the middle of all this. you've been listening for years, offering up windows and mirrors so the rest of us can plant our feet. over and over, with such joy, wisdom, truth-telling, and best of all, humor. you're the guy who sings with instead of for, and that makes all the difference.

i remember so many moments when your love of words--their sound, their texture, their deep capacity to connect--showed up in this world (and i was lucky enough to be there): mary oliver, shakespeare,wendell berry, "bulb", robert frost, your own songs, our word collections on the wall at camp... now as your own words are harder for you to find, you get to just listen, while we all do our best to shepherd you and to sooth ourselves, and to say thank you, thank you.

you and your smile and your willingness and your words and the music you make when you put them all together--these have been an anchor in my life, and as i hope you can hear, in so many others' lives.

after our visit on tuesday i went out and sat on the grass in the sunshine near that gorgeous old red maple , and i wrote you a song. really, it wrote itself, like songs usually do. i hope i get a chance to sing it to you.

tom

you can't take him out of my life
you can't take the sound of the wind from the trees
you can't take the daybreak
though i'm buried in heartache
you can't take him out of my life.

chorus:
cause it's only a matter of time
til we all get to the end of the line
though i can't fill his shoes
i plan to keep walking
we all got to find our way home

you can't take him out of my soul
he's in there so deep, like a shape in a stone
i still have tomorrow
though i'm full up with sorrow
you can't take him out of my soul

chorus

you can't take him out of my song
he gave me the words, though i knew them by heart
and now i've no choice
but to find my own voice
and you can't take him out of my song

chorus

thank you.

judyb

and many thanks as well to you--gwen, aeden, irene--for being willing to share this time with us. my heart is full and heavy and with you.; May 29, 2008 at 9:28 AM
Anonymous said...: Dear Tom, Gwen, Irene and Aeden
I wanted to let you know how much of an impact your family has made on my life. Irene is one of my dearest friends, and we had the privelege of living together on Walnut St. Before I even knew any of the rest of you, I knew you must be amazing to have raised such a beautiful, sensitive, talented daughter. When I remember the first lunch I had with Irene and Tom at the Bean Blossom I mostly just remember a warm feeling of relaxation and laughter. Every experience I have had with any and all of you have been full of life and laughter. Tom, I don't know if I ever thanked you properly for helping me move when Irene was....otherwise occupied! You are a kind and thoughtful man. I love you all very much and am thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts all the time.
Shonee Ratekin; May 29, 2008 at 10:46 AM
postmaster said...: Tom & Family -

We were all saddened to hear the news of your illness. I am a mom at Cedar Hills Coop in Portland who had the great pleasure of attending our school meeting last April where Tom Hunter spoke/sang/made us laugh.

I heard your wonderful songs throughout the year - and they always stuck with both myself and the children. I didn't know where the songs were from - always assumed it was yet another one of those magical teacher resources that everyone but me knew about. I was so happy to get a chance to see you in person - but not nearly as happy as my children, who could not believe that I got to meet the guy who sang the Seed Song. The morning after that meeting - I was constantly peppered with questions about Tom, what was he like?, what did he sing?, what did he say?, did you offer him one of the chocolate covered pretzels you bought? (sadly, I did not - and have regretted it and laughed at the irony of my children pointing out my lack of generosity).

One of the things I remember most about that evening was Tom’s smile and sheer joy at spending a few hours with a group of parents. You just seemed amused and joyous – and it was infectious. It seemed so clear to me that you were able to touch children’s hearts because you were so in touch with that child-like wonder of the world. I remember listening to your words and looking at your eyes and thinking – Wow, if we could all think about life & the world a little more like that – just think of how great things could be! I think we all left wanting to put a little more Tom Hunter in our lives.

I am just a mom of 5 yr old twin girls. I don't have years of history and personal contact with you that so many others are so fortunate to have. But I am a mom whose parenting was forever changed by your words and your songs. The morning after your talk, I spent the morning on the couch with my kids - reading with them for close to 3 hours - all because you reminded us to read to our kids and spend time with them and not to get caught up in all the "To Do Lists" that sometimes consume our lives. I even sang to them (something I've always been reluctant to do) because you reminded us that they really don't care what our voices sound like. I've remembered your words often and it has made me a better parent and better person.

There is no music in our household (and we are a household of music!) that is more beloved than yours. Your songs and belief that children’s words & music have meaning and value have my daughter “writing” songs like, “Driving home from picking Daddy up”. She came up with that one and wanted to record it like Our Music (i.e., the CDs of Tom Hunter). Your music is the children’s music – and it is absolutely precious to them.

I am sad that we will not have the opportunity to see you perform as a family but am so grateful & enriched that your words & music hold such a prominent place in our lives. Your music will continue to shape the lives & futures of our children – and the generations to come. You have a whole lot of people who will ensure that it happens.

You have made our lives better and thank you will never be enough.

Peace, laughter and, of course, music - through these tough days.
Kristin; May 29, 2008 at 10:58 AM
postmaster said...: Tom and Gwen,

Thoughts, prayers and lots of love to you from Missoula, Montana… Know we are holding you close, so close, to our hearts. Peter Shober, Barbara Cowan and Amy Carter and the University Congregational, UCC.; May 29, 2008 at 10:59 AM
postmaster said...: Hi,

I taught for about 10 years at Nipomo School in Nipomo, CA where Tom would visit each year. I always looked forward to his assemblies and presentations as did my students. I have several of his CD's and play them in class regularly. His music is timeless. The students always beg for more. I am in awe of his sincerity and genuine love for people which he shares through his music. You think of him as a good friend the first time you meet him and are totally drawn into the music.

Attached are a couple photos I took on one of his visits, in 05 I think. The posters say it all! We loved for Tom to come and were waiting for him to come to OUR place.

I was very saddened to hear of Tom's health issues and checked out the blog as soon as I could. I send my love and prayers to Tom and his family.

Jane Peterson
1st grade teacher; May 29, 2008 at 11:07 AM
Anonymous said...: To Tom and family,
I still have the tapes I purchased after hearing Tom at the Community Congregational church in Tiburon, CA back in the early '80s. Those songs have continued to bring lightness and joy into my life as well as others. You are in my thoughts and prayers --that you will feel safe in the love of others, and live this journey with as much ease as possible. Sincerely, Karen Kent; May 29, 2008 at 11:13 AM
Anonymous said...: tom

it's tony, i'm thinking about you and your family. i think about some of times we spent together, and how much i laughed and how much I really enjoyed life while in the presence of such an amazing spirit who truly knew how to love. you're a rightous dude and i miss you.

Tony Lombardi; May 29, 2008 at 11:19 AM
postmaster said...: And the angels took care of him

T. Willard Hunter; May 29, 2008 at 11:59 AM
Anonymous said...: I have only spent a few hours with Tom (once listening to his keynote address at a conference and once at a staff development meeting) but I will never forget his amazing presence, lovely music, and friendliness. As a preschool teacher, the best way for me to sum up my thoughts on Tom is that he makes my soul feel cozy! Tom, you and your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Thank you for being you.
Love, Vanessa H.; May 29, 2008 at 11:59 AM
Anonymous said...: First I wanted to say thank you to Gwen and the ever-vigilant webmaster for giving us up to date photos and information. It's been difficult for me to be so close and yet feel so far away. Being able to check the site frequently is helping me feel less isolated in trying to deal with the thought of Tom no longer being in our world in physical form.

One of the things I enjoy the most in reading other's notes are there stories and memories of you, Tom. Here's one of my favorites: When a bunch of people are sitting around a table eating, such as at Teachers Camp, you can tell the people who know you well from the first timers. Because when you begin talking, the veterans quietly put down their eating utensil and quickly chew and swallow what's in their mouth. The poor new people naively take a swig of their drink or shove a big bite of something in their mouth. BIG mistake. Because, you'll be talking along all normal-like and then without warning say something so funny that anyone with anything in their mouth sprays it all over the table. Those in the know wait until someone else begins to talk before resuming their meal. Last year, when first timer David Hall shared his tropical punch with us all, you laughed and said, "All right! Teachers Camp has begun!" Awesome memory.
Much love, Heidi; May 29, 2008 at 12:08 PM
Anonymous said...: From Melissa Madden (I don't have or want a blogger ID so I chose "anon")
Dear Uncle Tom... I have some shyness about posting to this public forum since we have not seen much of each other in the past years but when my mom filled me in, immediately I remembered how full are my memories from childhood with your singing and warmth. Its all kind of a jumble of music and family with Michigan and Gulch backdrops, but this jumble is probably what prompted me to tell people (even when I was old enough to know better) that you had written "Good Night Irene" for Irene- basically I just thought you were the best folk songwriter and that if one of your songs was that famous, it was deserved. Whether or not you had a hand in writing that (since there seems to be some dissension about who wrote it among the ranks), I want to thank you for bringing music and its accompanying warm fun into my life!- and to thank you on behalf of the hundreds and thousands of others who've been touched by your songs. I was blessed at the Gulch to witness some of your gift giving, even when you weren't around. When I find myself sunk into my farming routines, I am gratefully brought back to the big picture by the foundation of music laid for me by our family and so again, thank you for your gifts. Much love to you and Gwen and Aiden and Irene.; May 29, 2008 at 12:08 PM
Ann Yurovchak said...: Tom,

Jessica wants to share a message with you:

My favorite songs that you have sung are "When I'm Sad I Cry," "Come into My House," and I like the Pocket song. I loved coming to your Christmas concert, singing "Angels" up front with you, and time with the children the first time I ever saw you as the minister. I remember the time when we sang "Monster in the Closet" at my Grandma Alice's house last month, when you came over to my Grandma Alice's house. My little sister, who's only 3, did not want to sing. I'm so happy your music has been part of my life, and it always will be forever and ever. Love, Jessica (age 6); May 29, 2008 at 12:56 PM
The Hebert Family said...: "To us, from failing hands, you have passed the torch. It is now ours to hold high!"

Everyone you have touched shall carry your spirit, and from what has been written and from what I have witnessed, you shall live on through eternity in the hearts and minds of all you have touched.

They take comfort knowing that their, love and affection will look through death, and they shall pass your word from generation to generation.

I will carry with me always your smile, wit, warmth and your love for family and friends.

I will not say goodbye, rather I will say fare thee well as we will meet again, someday.

Peace to you, our love and strength to your family.
Jerry Horner; May 29, 2008 at 12:58 PM
Marla Bronstein said...: Dear Hunter Family,

I dropped off flowers from my garden today, I hope you enjoy the smells of spring/summer.

Two memories I will hold dear. The first, is my introduction to folk music in your backyard. Yes, I am a strange person that I never heard any such thing growing up in my home as a child. And even marrying into the family I did, there was no hint of "folkies" at the wedding. They were somehow hidden in the skeleton closet along with you. (Thank goodness you are out of the closet!!!)

The second is my memory of the first teacher's conference I attended where you were the keynote singer. (specifically NOT the speaker) and you did a song, which I cannot remember the title of, which talked about a child not being deaf, but simply ignoring her parents. (I can't hear you when you call, is one tag line of the song.)
Since we had just spent TWO sessions at Speech and Hearing Clinic, (I didn't believe the first results....imagine that...) the song almost made me...well, I laughed pretty hard at my own stupid parenting....whenever I hear that song, in my head, or if I ever find it, I know you are present.

This is what I will miss about you the most..your future mentoring on how to parent so that my children will someday be as amazing a young woman and man as yours have become. They are truly a testament to you and Gwen, and the love you have for each other and the world.

I am ordering my bracelet now WWTD (what would tom do?)
I love you.

Marla B.; May 29, 2008 at 1:54 PM
Marla Bronstein said...: OMG, I just found out...Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen recorded that song "I can't hear my parents call" I'm feeling a bit ill myself just at this minute....; May 29, 2008 at 2:23 PM
Anonymous said...: Tom, Gwen, & Family,
I thank God for the contribution that you are to this universe. Peace be with you!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUn7wN2zy24

All of my love,
Mark Polin; May 29, 2008 at 2:29 PM
Anonymous said...: Tom,

I have enjoyed eating with you, talking with you, laughing with you and getting to know you during your visits to RCP and the 'Good Stuff for Kids' conferences. You are an amazing leader and role model. In truth, you are and will always be, one of my hero's.

I am so thankful for the touch of your presence in our shared experience together.

Your light shines bright. I know it will not dim in death, but grow.

I'm having strong emotions, the best way for me is to just say it like a kid...

"Tom, when your dead, hurry back. I love you."; May 29, 2008 at 2:52 PM
Anonymous said...: Nancy McKay - a poem

Tom dies quickly
a quick wit
quickening faith in love.

His heart absorbed
both pain and joy
accepting, harmonizing.

He prayed exuberantly
laughed with gusto
saw around the corner of things.

A just man, an open soul
with the eyes of a child,
the humor and trust, too.

A storyteller, a tall tale twirler
No meanness, never
a man washed clean by wonder.; May 29, 2008 at 3:15 PM
Anonymous said...: Hi Tom and family,
I saw you recently in Buffalo at a BER workshop. I've used your music, been touched by your truth, and believe that your spirit of honesty is a contagious gift. We had time for food and a beer and I had a chance to talk with you more directly. It was interesting to hear of your travels, and to know that there is much to still think about. You, Tom Hunter, are an inspiration for music that flows from the soul of people to children and adults. You have opened my eyes through your song to give a voice to ask why, and why not? I am glad that your gifts have touched my life and those around. (by the way, I've never seen children more excited about BAM!!! I've been spreading the news of 5 little hot dogs and it's working) Your journey is yet undetermined, your road tender for what is unknown. The joy of your music holds clear through it all, praying for you and your family.

Sandy Hess, Preschool Teacher, Rochester, NY; May 29, 2008 at 7:10 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Tom,

It is a cool evening here in New Hampshire and I am sitting here reading about your current life struggles as sent to me by Bev Bos. Sadness overwhelms me at this point. You and Bev together have touched my life in ways you cannot imagine through your music and your words about what is good for children. You have guided my teaching and my work with children. You have been a mentor to many new and veteran teachers, including myself.

Each year I have made a point of coming to a workshop that you, Bev, and Michael present at NAEYC and to stop and see you. I am rejuvenated and reminded that we need to do what is right for children. Pass on to them what we know, where we came from and value each and every child for who they are.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

You have certainly touched my life and helped me to become the teacher I am today.

Much Love and Prayers,
Kate Stanley; May 29, 2008 at 7:11 PM
Anonymous said...: Hi Tom,
Many years ago you came to the Jr Hi in Ketchikan, Alaska and I was fortunate to be "in charge" of getting you around to groups, to the Stanton's home, etc. on your visit. You helped kids write and then put their songs to music, such great validation to their lives. I went on to teach primary kids for 20+ years using your songs. I always think of you when we sing "Seeds". Just gave my daughter copies of it for her first teaching job...kindergarten in the Aleutians. Your music goes everywhere!

Blessings, prayers, and tears from here in Alaska to you and your family. You have done so much for so many people with your music.
Kathy Paulson; May 29, 2008 at 8:00 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Tom and family: Much love and hugs to you from Davis, CA. I remember when you were in Davis last year and you looked at me and said "Aren't you supposed to be in Modesto?" and yes, occasionally I feel that way, but mostly life here is good and sometimes quite grand. Sending you good wishes and light.

Ann Bartholomew; May 29, 2008 at 8:06 PM
Anonymous said...: So Many, many riches you have passed to us, Mr. Hunter. Tom, I cry so easily hearing your soul touching songs and your strong voice. I always wanted a someday to come that I would have the time to take guitar lessons or learn the auto harp. My someday arrived today. I signed up with a local teacher, to discern what instrument will help me sing with the kids at preschool. I am making this musical journey with baby steps,at age 39 as a tribute to you. Thank you for the inspiration, and thank you doesn't seem to be enough. THANK YOU, Gwen, Aeden, and Irene for sharing Tom with us, and for sharing this part of the journey as well. I sure hope you feel the waves of love. It is so powerful and such a privilage to have met a man that has touched so many. It truely is a gift to be able to share in those stories in this way.
May God Bless You and hold you, May He shine His face upon you and give you peace!
Heidi Wolf
Minnesota; May 29, 2008 at 8:21 PM
Anonymous said...: I have been listening to your CD's with my grandson and now I hear the news.............I am in shock.
PLEASE know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sandi; May 29, 2008 at 8:45 PM
Kelli said...: Tom, Thank you; May 29, 2008 at 8:46 PM
Anonymous said...: Hi Tom,
I've never met you, but the children at my son's preschool attended one of your concerts last spring. Ryan goes to the Children's hospital Preschool and they love music. I read your blog and looked at all the pictures, what a wonderful place to visit. The love and joy is felt through those pictures and quotes. I hope my small gesture adds to the joy in your life. I know your music and smile brought joy to my sons and his friends. Thank you for such a priceless gift.- Jennifer; May 29, 2008 at 8:59 PM
Carol Garguile said...: Sorry the comment about my children. Brent and Cheryl was written by Carol Garguile. I forgot to post my name.; May 29, 2008 at 9:32 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Tom, I will never forget the time you came and sang to us in class. I love how your songs start out as poetry and turn into songs. Only the great can do that! I especially remember the song about the hand me down shirt. Thank you for being a part of my love of music.....Love Terrin Spray
Roseville Community School

Your music is one of my favorites on my ipod. I really loved it when you taught my class Emelia Erhardt. Thank you for sharing with me.........
Bina Spray
Roseville Community School; May 29, 2008 at 9:45 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Tom, Gwen, Aeden and Irene,

We are holding you all as we remember and rejoice in the gifts of the spirit we have received from you. Together you have created and lived the love and joy, the comfort, the struggles and the hope, which Tom’s words and songs and laughter have brought to our lives and the lives of so many around the world. We thank you all for these gifts.

Tom, the tender and powerful connections we have with you will always be with us – wherever we are, wherever you are. Our gratitude and joy for the gift of your friendship will continue as long as we do. You have filled us with inner music, and with delight for the many gifts you have shared over the years of our treasured friendship.

Warm memories abound! Here’s are a few of mine (Gretchen): -

The first time John and I met you was at Clergy Convocation at Asilomar in the mid 1970s. Sara Meury had lived with us the previous year in Prescott, AZ, and had shared your music and stories with us and our daughters. We were eager to meet you. At your workshop, when you sang “Rock me to sleep,” my tears just flowed. Afterwards I waited to talk with you, and thanked you for your music, and you smiled your Tom smile as you said, “Thank you for your tears!” The next morning you taught me to play your song, and gave it to me as you have to so many others.

So many years, Tom, of AEYC conferences blessing us with your songs and stories, sharing laughter and tears and renewing our passion and commitment for the children we care for and teach.

You, on a ballroom stage with Bev and Michael - singing, inspiring, mentoring us all to see clearer and deeper, to choose messy creativity instead of overprotection, and reminding us that we need to take care of ourselves so we can care for others.

You, there with Margie and Deb, helping hundreds of us to balance back and forth between play and reflection, discovery and memory, and “filling up and spilling over” with new possibilities, ideas and hope.

And you, the Pied Piper, reading a great new book aloud to a friend in the aisle of an exhibit hall, and suddenly becoming aware that a big audience had joined us, called by hearing your voice and not wanting to miss anything so wonderful. Such treasures you have given, such a treasure you are! Thank you. I wouldn’t have missed any of it!

Tom, here are a few of my special memories (John) -

Sunday mornings on KGO radio: Never before or since have I listened to talk radio, especially from 6 to 9 on Sunday mornings! Your compassionate, respectful, engaged listening to even the most outrageous callers: would that that might become the template not just for talk radio but for all our human relationships!

After you visited us in Belmont you composed and sang “Gretchen’s Place” in celebration of the Family Childcare center in our home. Later you wrote another song, “A Tailor and a Brook” when Wendy Taylor and I were installed as Co-Pastors at the Belmont UCC.

I especially remember you and Gwen hosting me in Bellingham when I was on a sabbatical trip exploring the intersections of pastoral and prophetic ministry. Your wisdom and humor and caring for people in those taped conversations have fed me ever since (“God is in the details!”). On Sunday I had the privilege of being with you as you led and loved the people of the Lummi Island church.

One of our last chances to be with you was when you visited us at our family “homestead,” Stonybrooke, here in Sonoma County. You gave us a copy of your book, “Build It Up and Knock It Down” which you inscribed for us: “for Stonybrooke where building it up and knocking it down is all part of dreaming and living and growing - Big big thanks for the connections and the friendship - Tom”

Tom, we count it as a gigantic blessing to be among the thousands of folk who have personally been richly graced by your life on this planet. You are one voice whose ripples have reached thousands more beyond those of us fortunate enough to have had you touch our lives directly.

“Big big thanks for the connections and the friendship!” We love you.

Gretchen and John - and Judy, Suzi and Sally; May 29, 2008 at 9:45 PM
Anonymous said...: Tom, Like so many others, I want to share with you how much you have touch our family's lives. Twenty years ago, you married Ross and me at the Lummi Island Church in the most heart-warming and personable ceremony we could have ever hoped for. Your sermons were always uplifting and empowering to all who heard you on those Sunday mornings in the Lummi Island Church. Fourteen years ago, I had the opportunity to attend one of your workshops for teachers in Seattle. I have to say it was the most fun I've ever had at a workshop. As a speech language pathologist, I have inspired many preschool age children to sing, dance and laugh to your music. But the greatest gift that you have given to us as a family is that you inspired us to make music a part of our lives. Our two children were raised on your songs about the world and life and each has found a passion to play musical instruments. Thank you for instilling the value of music that has become such an important part of our world. Your loving spirit will be with us forever. With Gratitude, Tammy Hathaway; May 29, 2008 at 9:46 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Tom,

I am like thousands of other mothers, fathers, teachers, and children around this country who have been touched by you. I came to know you first as a keynote speaker at an early childhood conference in Oregon over 20 years ago. Our attendance at your performance in a church in Portland prompted my then 4 year old to lean over and say to me “So this is what it looks like inside of a church.” I hold an image of you on a tricycle at Roseville Community Preschool during Good Stuff for Kids about 14 years ago. It makes me smile each time I think of it. You were being pursued by a young child who was gleefully chanting ”Tom Hunter, this way, catch me Tom Hunter”. I have been fortunate to attend workshops you taught through BER; the last time just a little over a year ago. (I must admit to being one who arrived late because I ran out of gas along the way.) I was thrilled to welcome you to my school in West Linn, Oregon a few years ago where you performed for our students. My favorite memory is of the week I spent with my dear friend Maggie at Northwest Teacher’s Camp with the small group of teachers who attended the one and only August session. Few experiences have informed my teaching as much as that one.

I am amazed and inspired by the connections you have made and the hearts you have touched. How is it possible that so many of us think of you as friend?

I find it very difficult to make sense of bad things happening to such an incredibly good person who has given so much to make this world a better place for children. Please know that you are being carried in the hearts of the thousands of people you have touched with your wisdom, your love, and of course your music.

There was music in Tom Hunter’s house.
There was music all around.
There was music in Tom Hunter’s house
And my heart still feels full with the sound.

With love to you and your family,

Donna Weber; May 29, 2008 at 10:51 PM
Anonymous said...: i am simply so sorry. i just can't imagine what you all are going through. on so many, many levels.and selfishly put, i cannot conceive that tom will not be along side bev and michael in roseville as i always expect him to be. i was not done sharing him with everyone i know that has not had the privilege of hearing his stories. i just want to come over and hang out with you... it's hard being far away, helpless. i am sure i am just one of so many people that feel similar. again, i sure would not want to intrude or impose... but, how long would it take me to drive there from los angeles???? so, thanks, tom hunter. i have the songs already in my head. i have read those books many times over. much much love. to you, and all who love you so dearly.

rachel gates; May 29, 2008 at 10:54 PM
Anonymous said...: Tom and family-
Our thoughts, our prayers, our love to you all. Most of all a huge thanks for the gifts you have given us. I have learned much from you and I in turn reflect this knowledge in my teaching. A fond memory I have is a few years ago in Portland at the OAEYC conference I created a flute using plastic medical tubes and began to play. You yelled across the room, "sounds good!" Great memories! Great sounds! Great life! Love, Joy and Frank Knight, The Creation Station, Lynnwood, WA.; May 29, 2008 at 11:11 PM
Anonymous said...: steve webb-Tom ,I knew when I painted your house and you had me paint your fence purple that we were kindred spirits.Nobody normal would paint their fence purple!When I saw the little flowers pasted all over Aedens VW van I also knew the acorn didn't fall too far from the tree. Your goofy,funloving and musical spirit is that which I cherish and will always carry with me.I hope but I'm pretty sure those that have been around you will take some of your gifts and make them their own.I know Aeden has. I love you all and the Webb familys' thoughts and blessings are with you!!; May 29, 2008 at 11:27 PM
Mahala said...: Tom, I am honored to have met and attended Early Childhood conferences you were at. I have your music. When I first saw/met you, I was in a class at BTC that you were teaching and as soon as I came in the classroom, I tripped and you had fun with that. Then later after the conference was over, I literally ran into you in the cafeteria and then tripped over a chair. You had quite an effect on me!
I am sending love and warm thoughts to you in Bellingham from right here in Bellingham.
Mahala; May 29, 2008 at 11:32 PM
Anonymous said...: Tom -when you had me paint your fence purple I knew we were kindred spirits.Nobody normal paints their fence purlpe!when I saw these little flowers all over
Aedens Vw van I knew the acorn didn't fall too far from the tree.Your goofy, funloving not to mention musical spirit are gifts that you not only pass on to your son but also to those who are blessed with your friendship.The music and relationships that you have created are the true testomony to someone who has had not only a rch life but also such a positive impact on so many people. if you are leaving us it is our duty to keep this funloving musical spirit alive and I promise we will.. In Randy Pausch book The Last Lecture he proclaimed to his graduating students that the most important things in life are not things. They are people and your relationships with those people. It is obvious in knowing you and your family and in reading these blogs that you have had your priorities straight. Anyway just wanted to let you know we love you and we are thinking of you !!!; May 30, 2008 at 12:11 AM
Anonymous said...: Dearest Tom,
I had the wonderful pleasure of meeting you at the 2003 Good Stuff for kids conference in Roseville. I will never forget your radient smile and your the way your eyes sparkled when you sang, and your words, your voice, they reached in and touched my heart! I will always have that hand print. Thank you for singing what so many of us are so afraid to talk about!
Thank you for making it okay to just be! You inspired me then and as I read about all that is happening in your life now your graditude and strength overwhelms me! Let's just say my widows are clean!
I love that you have touched so many lives and know that you will continue to do so after this life!
Thank you!
With love Nika; May 30, 2008 at 12:34 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Tom Hunter and Family,

I am so thankful to have met you so long ago at a workshop. I remember after seeing you at NW Teacher Camp and telling you how much I learned from that workshop, and you told me, "I don't like the names they give the workshops. It's so generic." I laughed, and I thought, "Man, this guy is so neat, and what a rebel." We came to know each other, and you teased me about what a "rebel" I was. I will never forget your laughter and your great welcome hugs whenever you came to Edwardsville. You are truly a man who loves life and spreads joy wherever you are. I remember becoming comfortable with your songs and then being assigned the toughest class of my career. THE ONLY TIME those kids behaved was when we sang along to Tom Hunter CD's. I was pregnant at the time, and I remember thinking, "Boy this baby had better love music." My "baby" is now 11 years old, and he seems to be a natural with rhythm. He loves playing the piano, and I think it is because of you. Even when we haven't listened to a Tom Hunter CD for months (can you imagine?), my kids will say, "Hey, that's a Tom Hunter song." They love listening to you and singing along. You have the gift of having touched so many lives. You are truly a teacher, someone who touches tomorrow. I will never forget you and how you changed my teaching and outlook on life. I know I'll see you again Tom Hunter...I'll probably still be a rebel...even in heaven! Look me up! Love you and hugs to you and your family. Julie Kanning Frank,Edwardsville, IL; May 30, 2008 at 2:09 PM
Anonymous said...: No matter the distance I've traveled, I come back to Bellingham and remember. I remember Tom's smile, the way he brought laughter to church and music to our ears. I remember Aeden and there are very few times I visit where I don't attend one of Aeden's shows...just to see that same smile, listen to his music and enjoy one of his great hugs. I am troubled by this news and have difficulty being far away and unable to help.
I take comfort in knowing that the love and devotion your family and friends share will provide the strength necessary to survive this difficult time.
My thoughts and sympathy are with you.; June 1, 2008 at 7:26 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear wonderful Hunters,
When I got your email about Tom's illness, my first thought was "Shit! There really are Monsters in the Closet!" And they are way too close!

To say I'm sorry you have to go through this is a terrible understatement. My hope is that you are buoyed up by the love and support of so many whose lives you have clearly ALL touched over the years.

I met Tom through Mike Bausch in the 70's who was then our United Methodist conference youth director in the Cal-Nevada conference. Mike arranged for Tom to come lead a youth/young adult weekend conference for us which we entitled "Monsters in the Closet."

The songs have stayed with me...and I sing them with my own kids. A couple of years ago I was delighted to find Tom performing in Marin county where I now live, and brought my 2 young girls to hear him. It felt like full circle, and I was so happy they had the opportunity to hear him then.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers as you walk this difficult path together.

Cherie Emery-Klein
Fairfax, CA; June 10, 2008 at 1:02 PM