Singing together somewhere in time
Tom & Gwen
Tom Hunter
For information about Tom Hunter, his ideas, and his music, visit www.tomhunter.com.
Tom Hunter left all of us a legacy of celebration, music, compassion and giving to our communities. Throughout his lifetime, Tom worked with people of all ages and backgrounds to teach new ways of learning and living. We all are committed to "keeping it going" by remembering his smile and his music and his voice.
There was a tremendous outpouring of support for the Hunters during this transition, and the family is deeply grateful.
Tom Hunter left all of us a legacy of celebration, music, compassion and giving to our communities. Throughout his lifetime, Tom worked with people of all ages and backgrounds to teach new ways of learning and living. We all are committed to "keeping it going" by remembering his smile and his music and his voice.
There was a tremendous outpouring of support for the Hunters during this transition, and the family is deeply grateful.
TOM'S HEALTH
Tom Hunter was diagnosed on May 20, 2008 with Creutzfeldt-Jacob Disease and died on June 20, 2008.
On September 2, 2008, a letter from the National Prion Disease Pathology Research Center confirmed that Tom had what's called 'sporadic CJD' (sCJD). His was an extremely rare type of sCJD that one in 4.5 million people are diagnosed with annually. We're very grateful that he did not have the inherited form, but it's critically important that a cure for all forms of CJD (caused by scrapy proteins in the brain which can take up to 40 years to manifest and kill their victims) are found. All forms of CJD are fatal.
The most accurate and up-to-date site for learning about CJD and supporting efforts to find a cure is http://www.cjdfoundation.org/ .
On September 2, 2008, a letter from the National Prion Disease Pathology Research Center confirmed that Tom had what's called 'sporadic CJD' (sCJD). His was an extremely rare type of sCJD that one in 4.5 million people are diagnosed with annually. We're very grateful that he did not have the inherited form, but it's critically important that a cure for all forms of CJD (caused by scrapy proteins in the brain which can take up to 40 years to manifest and kill their victims) are found. All forms of CJD are fatal.
The most accurate and up-to-date site for learning about CJD and supporting efforts to find a cure is http://www.cjdfoundation.org/ .
Tom and Gwen
2007
Tom and Aeden
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May 8,2008
Tom and Irene
May 24th, 2008
To live on this earth
you must be able
to do three things:
To love what is mortal;
To hold it
against your bones knowing
your own life depends on it;
And when the time comes to let it go,
to let it go.
mary oliver
DONATIONS
Please help provide financial support by sending whatever you can. We are hoping for lots of $25. hugs- or whatever works for you - to help the Hunters with medical and transition expenses. They also want to protect the wetlands, forest and farm* that have seen so much of their love over the years and to help keep Tom's work alive in the world. (*Contributions given specifically for the mortgage have been moved with overwhelming gratitude to the new Tom Hunter Memorial Account described above.) If you wish to make a donation please make checks payable to Tom Hunter Family Donation (or to Tom Hunter Memorial Account) and mail to:
Whatcom Educational Credit Union
PO Box 9750
Bellingham, WA 98227
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Now the focus narrows to just the steps ahead. You have a chorus of knowing, loving voices all over this planet to sing you home.
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PHOTOS - NOW ON A NEW PAGE
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Pictures of Tom, Family and Friends
Singing with friends
Salem Oregon 1990
Laughing at a story
June 7th from Marie
"All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seeds of today" Indian Proverb
with love from Gege Manolis
with love from Gege Manolis
Tom and Irene
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June 2008
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Music, meals, flowers, yard work & farm work
The Hunter Family
Jeanne Herrick has put many photos from the blog into a beautiful slide show. Click below to watch
Words from Tom's Dad
May 26
Somebody noticed what you did today
Somebody noticed little things along the way
How you watched how you listened to what children do and say;
Somebody noticed what you've done alway
'Tis grace has brought us safe thus far,
And grace will lead us home.
May 29
And the Angels took care of him.
May 31st
The Lord bless and keep you. The Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious unto you. The Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you, your family, the city of Bellingham, and the world, peace-- both now and forevermore. Amen
Somebody noticed what you did today
Somebody noticed little things along the way
How you watched how you listened to what children do and say;
Somebody noticed what you've done alway
'Tis grace has brought us safe thus far,
And grace will lead us home.
May 29
And the Angels took care of him.
May 31st
The Lord bless and keep you. The Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious unto you. The Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you, your family, the city of Bellingham, and the world, peace-- both now and forevermore. Amen
Tom with the love quilt
From First Congregational Church of Bellingham
Aeden, Tom & Willard Hunter
Three Generations
Tom and Cindy
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Prayer rocks from Lummi Island
"Sometimes healing is more than getting better. Sometimes it's love revealed....." - Tom Hunter
Aeden and Tom, April '08
May 20, 2008
Here I sit, feeling my feet on the floor
An image of grounding you’ve used lots before
Trying to make sense of this surreal, difficult time
While loving where I came from with infinite pride
It’s been amazing how many lines from your songs
Have been lights in the darkness when it all feels wrong
Have comforted, questioned, been profound and fun
Your capacity for humanity is second to none
This world is a better place because of who you are
And that’s known widely – near and far
In music, education, and matters of the heart
You’ve bettered lives right from the start
I’m so proud of you, of where I’ve come from
You’re a huge part of me and have taught me a ton
About being human, love, laughter, and tears
And how to keep going despite life’s fears
Please don’t worry about the rest of us
We’ll take care of each other and will always feel your touch
Your laughter, music, compassion, and voice
Will always be with us in the midst of life’s noise
So here I sit, feeling my feet on the floor
With love and gratitude deep down in my core
I’m so grateful for the time we have had
You’ll always be my mentor, my best friend, my dad.
-Aeden
Irene and Tom last summer
The very best dad in the world
i’ve always loved your laugh lines,
the way you smile ear to ear
and you always have this easy way
of crushing any fears.
we’ve shared so much so far in life
and i’m so proud and glad
that i can say with confidence
i have the very best dad.
from raspberries to hasty moves
and the cutting edge again?!
to times when you have comforted me
over troubles with my friends.
you know how to relieve the weird feelings
when things don’t feel quite right
you let me put them in your hands
and throw them into the night.
we’ve shared trees against the sky
and books, poems, songs and walks
you taught me respect by looking again
and i’ve always loved our talks.
from dream stories to lake padden eagles
and coloring outside the lines
i can say with ease and confidence
you have the most lovely mind.
i remember all those wakeful nights
and running down the hall
you and mom sang lullabies
and sound asleep i’d fall.
i’m your goofball now—
i’ll always be whether we’re near or far
i’ll hold you close in who i am
no matter where we are.
i know it’s getting harder
to take in this fantastic world
just know i love you—i always will—
as daddy’s little girl.
Irene
May 22, 2008 After baptizing little Maddie
Exchanging blessings
To My Old Brown Earth by Pete Seeger
To my old brown Earth
And to my old blue sky
I'll now give these last few molecules of I
And you who sing
And you who stand near by
I do charge you not to cry
Guard well our human chain
Watch well you keep it strong
As long as sun will shine
And this our home
Keep pure and sweet and green
For now I'm yours
And you are also mine
with thanks to Cori Dusmann
May 22, 2008 At the Shepherd's
"I want my music to be grounded in the realities of what kids and teachers know. I want it to 'ring true; as it helps people laugh, cry, remember, celebrate, and learn."
— Tom Hunter
Tom in his backyard Labor Day 03
"I've been visiting schools to sing songs for almost 30 years. I've been in a lot of classrooms, presented a lot of workshops, talked with a lot of teachers, and sat on a lot of floors with kids. If I bring reminders of what's important in education, they come from finding those moments when the heart shows up, moments that peek around the corner and need to be invited farther into the room so we can see them. Such moments might seem ordinary but they are way too important to be captured in test scores. They fill teachers (and sometimes children) to overflowing."
Quoted from Tom's introduction to his book of essays : "Visits to the Heart of Education: Remembering What's Important" (available from Song Growing Company - see link below)
Quoted from Tom's introduction to his book of essays : "Visits to the Heart of Education: Remembering What's Important" (available from Song Growing Company - see link below)
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"But what if we can't get there?
What if it's too far?
What if we can't find our way from right here where we are?
What if it doesn't matter
that we can't find our star?
What if God comes anyway
right here where we are?"
-Tom Hunter
What if it's too far?
What if we can't find our way from right here where we are?
What if it doesn't matter
that we can't find our star?
What if God comes anyway
right here where we are?"
-Tom Hunter
Northwest Teachers Camp
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from Cori Dusmann
Photos
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Today, like every other day, we wake up empty
and frightened. Don't open the door to the study
and begin reading. Take down a musical instrument.
Let the beauty we love be what we do.
There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the ground.
Rumi, the Sufi Poet
and frightened. Don't open the door to the study
and begin reading. Take down a musical instrument.
Let the beauty we love be what we do.
There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the ground.
Rumi, the Sufi Poet
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Dearest Tom, Gwen, Irene, and Aeden,
I have no eloquent words to express my sorrow at the news. Please know that you are all in my prayers and in my heart. Having recently walked a similar path, I know the gift of precious time. Use it well. Say what needs said, love and hold on to each other, and laugh with each other. A gift is a gift regardless of the wrappings.
Know that you are loved.
Love,
Kim
Dear Tom,
I want to thank you for who you are and what you have added to my life. I know that I am a better teacher because of knowing you and attending teachers camp. You came to Arizona once and put on a concert at a church. Helen and I drove out to see you. I remember telling you that it was one of the most exciting days of life. You laughed and said that didn't say much about my life!!
When us Phoenix girls went to that BER conference for the fist time, it was like a breath of fresh air! Finally, to meet someone who felt the same way as I did about teaching kids! Someone to remind me that that playing with kids is a requirement and that singing is a must.
I am telling you this because your presence in my life has changed me! Teachers camp has helped me to become a better person all the way around -- and you are a huge part of that. Some of the purest moments of love I have every experienced have been with you and Richard and all my camp family. I love you Tom Hunter and I am so very blessed to call you my friend. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Kim
Dear Tom,
I just don't know what to say. I feel very fortunate to have met you and also to have had the opportunity to attend Teacher Camp. I learned from you a lot about working with children as a musician and not just as an educator. You have a gift that you have generously shared with so many, many people. All of us are better for the time we have spent with you in fellowship and friendship.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
God bless,
Mark Hofeditz
Dear Hunter Family,
We have been singing here -- with you and for you. I hope you can hear the strains drifting out over the plains and up over the mountains, settling in the quiet moments. All of us here are holding you in our hearts. Love knows no time zones.
Kelly and her kids at A Place For You in Iowa City
Tom Hunter, I thought life was really bad because the Mariners have been sucky and it snowed on the tulip fields. And now I find that you --the dearest of people I know-- are really sick and I can't quite imagine life being this really bad for you and the rest of us who want to be around you all of the time! It's just not okay. You have made me cry many times, but the news of your illness tops it all. In this small space I am trying to send big love and prayers and as much shining energy that you have given to me and so many others -back to you. I'll keep checking in to find out what else I can do. I love you more.
Deb Curtis
Tom Hunter,
I thought life was bad because the Mariners are sucky and it snowed on the tulip fields. Then I found out you are very sick and I can't quite imagine that life could be this really, really bad for you and those of us who want to be around you all of the time. It's just not okay.
In this small space I am sending you big love and prayers and some of that bright energy that you give away to all of us so often. I'm sending it back to you and I know you can feel it.
I will keep checking in to find out how you are and to see how I can help. Hang in there would ya. I love you more.
Deb
PS Gwen I am close so I could be there to help in anyway you need. Love to you too.
Dear Tom,
I’m not one to be good with words but I wanted to write and tell you how much your have been a part of my life.
I grew up with you in my life. The first time my dad had you come to my school I never knew how much of a part of it you would truly be. Your music came into our house and became a big part of our lives. Going to camp each year, growing up in a community surrounded by voices raised in song…
Your music is in my heart and I will carry it with me. Thank you for who you are and what you have brought to my life.
My prayers are with you and my love travels to you and your family.
Hugs!
Hannah
My Dear Bud Tom,
I struggle, sit, wait, pray hard, and look for angels everywhere.
I try to laugh too - that part is harder.
Love and many deep prayers to and for you all.
Margie
Tom,
I am so sad to hear about your illness.
It is difficult to find words to express how you and your family have touched my life in the past 10 years. You have inspired me to face my fears, to become a lifelong learner, and reminded me that it is our responsibility to question and not just accept. In you, I saw firsthand how a man can make it his life journey to make this world a better place to live in. You have done what we all aspire to do - you have made a difference in the lives of many of us!
Much love & prayers are coming your way,
Debbie
Oh, Tom, I cannot get you off my mind. You have been the most inspirational person in my entire life! I can't imagine who I'd be had I never gotten to know you. It's your voice I've wanted to hear when times are tough, your words I've longed to hear after a long year and your music that reminded me what was important all year long. You have enriched the lives of so many. Remember when I said, "I'm in awe of you?" I forever will be.
Much love,
Debbie
Tom and Family
You have sent out only love and light in the world, and that is what you will receive. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of the music and love for children you have expressed. Please know that love is so much stronger than death, and that those who really lived never completely leave us. You my friend who I never officially met, have lived. It shows in your eyes and pours out from your heart.
Know that you are surrounded by angels of love and caring and that you are never, ever alone. All my best prayers and wishes are focused in your direction.
Jane-Ann Carroll
Hi Tom,
I've never known anyone who lights up a room or the world like you. Your laugh, your wisdom and profound kindness, and your amazing spirit has changed my life and that of many others. I have no words to express my sadness, so I will simply say, I love you. I am holding you in my heart. I am also close by and have available time if I can be of assistance in any manner.
Sending stardust,
Heidi Mosbarger
Dear Tom,
There is supposed to be some reason that this sort of thing happens to good people, but I'll be darned if I can see one.
Please know how much our relatively brief acquaintance has meant to me...Your gift for storytelling and kind and gentle spirit will live in my memory long beyond your physical form on this planet.
I know you have touched many, and we are all better for knowing you.
Love,
Lori Nichols
Dear Tom,
I'm heading out to the garden to find a good rock for sitting. You'll be with me there . . . and I'll be smiling.
With big hugs and lots of love,
vanessa
Dearest Tom, Gwen, Irene and Aeden,
I am in constant prayer for all of you. I have also placed you on two prayer groups that I often use.
There is a 24 hour prayer line that you might find comfort in using 1-800-669-7729. It is a wonderful support in the middle of the night when emotions can start creating such fear as you will talk to a live person. They will be praying constantly for you over the next 30 days.
As I was praying for you this morning I was guided to send this verse. The eternal God is thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms. Deuteronomy 33:27
In addition to your friends, I know angels are gathered around to give you comfort.
Thank you for being such a loving support to me and for giving me hope. You are an amazing family and Tom continues to be an inspiration to thousands. His gift of laughter and love enrich us all.
None can understand God's plan but I plan to hold to Matthew 19:26 and Luke 1:37 for you every time I pray.
Love,
Calene
Beloved Hunter Family,
I love the pictures here...and all the pictures in my head of all the joy, wisdom, goodness and love you've brought to me, my family and SO many, many others. Love heals and I'm sending all mine from my overflowing heart! Know you're not alone, ever.
You are forever in my thoughts,
Sherry Baugh
Dear Tom and Gwen:
"For some reason" in the last couple of weeks I have been thinking about our conversation over dinner that last night in Chicago at the NAEYC conference. Then this awful news comes. I know you know there are tears, prayers, memories, all kinds of support and love in this wider circle out here holding you in love. I will like a candle each day so that the angels will join us.
With love,
Margie
Dear Tom and Family,
Please know that your music has touched so many lives. I knew you as a young girl, 40 some years ago at Cottonwood Gulch, but my own kids grew up on "Monster in the Closet" and more. Imagine my surprise when I recently opened up my Creative Curriculum for my Pre
K class and found your music again. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Joy Allen Burns - New Mexico
Dear Tom,
I heard a Mary Oliver poem the other day, Wild Geese, and I thought of you. I sang a song, Babys Boat, and I thought of you. I look at my children wearing their tie dye and I think of you. You are in my thoughts every day as I try to be the best parent and best human I can be. You show me and so many people so much love and hope and strength and compassion and laughter just being you. We all want to be near you! Know that I am again thinking of you and your family. And I'm so sorry that I didn't tell you how much I miss you! And how I wanted so much to come to camp even though I had a newborn! And then another baby! I'm so sorry that I didn't contact you more often. Life got busy....A new house, a new baby, a girl this time! Can you believe it? She goes to sleep every night hearing me sing. I still should have made the time for someone who is as special as you. I thank you for the wonderful talks we've had, the fantastic time at camp... Dancing crazily! Laughing and crying. I love you. I miss you. I see more clearly thanks to your friendship and wisdom and laughter. You and your family are in our prayers and hearts.....
Rebecca
Hi Tom, Gwen, Aeden,
Jennifer and I want to send you our love that we have felt for you all since meeting each of you. We are very sad to hear of your illness. Both of us have been thinking thoughts ranging from sadness to anger that started as soon as we heard.
You really changed our lives and teaching by showing us how to draw from ourselves the feelings and strength that keep sustaining us to this day. To understand what is really important-which for everyone are their own special things-and to be able to speak up for making our classes, school, and ourselves better. All of you have given Jen and I a special wisdom. We love you guys.
Jennifer and Mike
dear tom.
words could never express the love that i have for you. i have shared some of the my fondest memories of my life with you. i used to try and put you in jail with helena and the others. those times are forever engraved in who i am as a person. your words of wisdom are forever enstilled in my character. through an eternity i will cherish our talks. either at the kitchen table. sittin on a chair, or watching you play your guitar. i respect and love you so much as one of the first and most influential men in my life. and i thank you for everything you have given me. at the same time i hope that i have influenced you in some way. i was always so glad when you came down and needed to use my bedroom. just something about it i thought was so neat. that this man that i looked forward to coming each year would want to stay in my bed. it was honor to let you stay there. it was so interesting to me that you were so appreciative of it. i suppose its those little things in life that mean so much to us. a simple a thing as a bed and some company was all that you needed. this letter is not one of sadness or grief. but one of appreciation for what we have had together. forever i will cherish the song you wrote me. and just remember that your my homie g. and we always keep it real.
i love you tom. forever. and always
night jim. love you
Dear Tom, Know that I love you and your family in bunches and bunches of brightly colored flowers and in baskets of fresh, vibrant and dirt-dusted vegetables. You are firmly planted in this world, roots running deep and intertwined with others. Right now I am with you in memory, laughing hard at new word definitions in Flip and Zeke's back yard. I'm singing Owl Moon, thinking of you all and sending hugs, love, Julie Mauermann
Dearest Tom,
Please know I am holding you close in my thoughts...we're far away, wandering the streets of Rome, singing your songs everywhere we go. I'm not the chatty one at camp, or after, with you, so I know I haven't told you how completely life-altering my experiences there have been. You've helped me find the music in life again, when I thought I had lost it forever, and I hold you in my thoughts like a shining star.
Please know that even though we are half a world away, we are keeping you dear in our hearts and are sending love, prayers and music winging through the skies to you.
Love Cori, Xander and Rob
Dear Friend-I worked in my garden today and my tears mixed with the soil. I was thinking of "The Wild Braid" I gave you and how we talked about art being created not for praise or recognition but as gratitude for the gifts we have been given... You have used those gifts more wisely than anyone I know.You are a shining example of what a difference "one wild and precious life" can make in this world of ours and I am blessed to call you my friend. I am sending prayers of strength and courage and renewed faith for you and Gwen, Aeden and Irene (and all of us who love you), for the journey ahead. So much love, Billie
After reading the news, I turned on my favorite Tom Hunter cd, "We've Been Waiting for You" and cried. My daughters (who are 9 and 12 and love Tom's music as much as my preschoolers) walked in and we talked. My youngest said, "Well, I guess now that song is about heaven waiting for Tom Hunter." I laughed and cried as we pictured Tom singing and hugging and telling stories with the angels -- asking them, "And what else is true?" Tom, I hope you know the profound impact your presence has made in the lives of so many. I am so grateful for my time spent with you at camp last summer and at my preschool in Portland this past fall. Families, teachers and children everywhere are holding you and your family in their hearts. Love, Sandy Hodge
Oh Tom, I barely know you but somehow I love you. From the very first time I met you I said, I wish he was my dad. You sing at our school with the parents and with the kids; it warms my heart and gives me strength. You will always be in my heart.
Mindi
Roseville Community School
Good grief! We had known you were going to have a hard row to hoe ahead of you. But this is much harder than expected.
I guess it makes sense though that a truly rare disease would latch onto an truly rare person. You are an amazing lodgepole of warmth and caring in a confusing world, Tom. As your body throws in the towel let it comfort you that the idea of "Tom Hunter" is held and nourished in the thoughts and hearts of so many folks you have touched over the years.
Like my little grandaughter, Cordelia, it will be okay for you too to listen to the "Sad Song" over and over when you need it now.
But I hope the folks around you can find ways to help you laugh amid the tears and share joy too as you figure out how to get where you need to go.
With love,
Margie MacDonald
Hey...Tom...You really know how to get a guy singing, laughing and crying...and all at the same time...!!!
You want me to be real, eh???
Damn that disease...!!!
So now keep going each day you've got 'cause you've helped me to keep goin'...
I love the Celtic story about what Mary told Jesus to do: "Three things of God...the merciful word; the singing word; and, the good word."
Tom...you did it and you're doin' it...!!!
Love to ya...!!!
Bob Fitzgerald (you changed my life with the "waiting for you" song!!!)
Dear Tom,
I am writing to express my great sadness about your illness and to take a moment to thank you for making an impact on life. You have shared your knowledge, talent and inspiration with others, who have "paid it forward" and have ultimately affected my parenting, my kids and my life. Although we haven't met, you've made a difference for me and my family. Thank you tremendously. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Janis in Iowa
Hey Tom-
In 1/2 hour I'll be dancing with ten six year olds. They're pretty good...but they don't hold a candle to you! I'll never forget our duet and will be holing you & yours tight...and so close to my heart that you'll be inside. I love you.
Leslie
Tom,Gwen, Aeden, Irene
Just want to let you know I am listening to Coming Home and thinking of you all.
Thinking of you
Love,
Ruthie Merrell
5/20 Tom - Ruth and I are about to leave for Escondido CA where we will spend four days with my OLD Mountain Buddies. ("just hanging-out")
A number of years ago I attended a men's gathering led by Robert Bly. He requested we choose a poem from an anthology he had edited. I chose one to live with and chew on. Everytime I reflect on it, I think of you.
Today, like every other day, we wake up empty
and frightened. Don't open the door to the study
and begin reading. Take down a musical instrument.
Let the beauty we love be what we do.
There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the ground.
Rumi, the Sufi Poet
Yours aye! Rod
Hi Tom,
The last time we talked, the importance of intimacy for you and for me was shared in our stories. Your story was not easy to hear! Your many stories spoken and in song, have impacted me, our faith community, our town, our children in such positive and wonderful ways. Your personal friendship with me has added so many new dimensions to my life. I am grateful, sad, and a little angry. Yet Joy will win out, for you... in my life! And you are one hell of a room mate. Much love to you, Gwen, and your family
Dear Tom & Family,
I represent a huge group of fans from afar who have been moved by your music and by the gentle man who you have shown yourself to be. You've helped us to slow down, be ourselves, love our children and generally remain true to what we know is right. What a legacy!
I can't imagine how difficult this must be, but remember you are only given what you can handle. Keep the songs in your heart.
I wish I'd had the opportunity to meet you.
Maggie in KC
Tom and Family:
David Morris just sent me an upsetting word, Tom, about what is going on for you. One of the best men’s groups I have ever been in was with you and Phil in the northwest. The rich tapestry of song and stories and movement was real, ennobling, fun, and deep.
I pray the energies of love and joy will weave themselves around you in whatever you are going through. In the shattering, please know that my heart reaches out to you to embrace and uphold you.
Godspeed,
Alan
Tom, You have always been and will always remain the friend that touches a person's life and leaves a lasting imprint. You bring out the best in the human spirit and remind us of what is important. You speak from the heart and soul with eyes that laugh and sparkle and a voice that knows the sorrows and joys of life. There were times when you spoke the loudest with just your eyes and a quiet pause. No matter how far the distance or the time between visits, your presence stayed with a person. You are a person for all times. You helped us to believe in ourselves, to look around us and see the possibilities, joys and magic that abound. Our lives are blessed by the people who touch us and help us see how to embrace life. You are that person. To enjoy the moments and make time for the little things, a hug of gratitude, a smile, a cry, laughter and more laughter, quietness together, time to watch and ponder, the richness of participating in the life we have here and now. You have sown many seeds and touched many hearts. Thank you for touching mine. I wish there was the time to hug closely and rest our heads. To feel the energy of your spirit which you shared with abundance. I think of you and smile. You are genuine goodness. A teacher of life by being real. You reached out and touched a place inside us, as if you were a friend from long ago who always knew us. You will always be here. I need just to look around me and I can hear your voice and see your laughing face. I love you. Mary Jo, Roseville Community School
Dear Tom,
I am sending all the love I can gather up to you and all in your family. You have been healer, friend, brother, teacher and more to me in so many ways, so many times.
I'll be singing your songs as a way to be with you from here in California. I know so many of them --- by heart.
Randall Mullins
Tom-
Hugh Hanley just called to give me the news. I wanted to thank you again for guiding my music to a better place. As I confessed to Hugh, you changed everything... for the good. Know that there are many spirits who love and respect you, Tom.
Peace, Vincent
Dear Tom,
I’m thinking of our walks… the ones we’ve taken along various bodies of water: the Erie Canal, Lake Ontario, Lake Michigan… and the ones we planned to take. I’m remembering the conversations we’ve shared…both somber and funny while walking, sharing a pint, driving around Rochester or via emails. How fortunate I am to have you as a friend. You are an inspiration and a source of strength to me and to countless others who keep coming back to hear your voice again. I am struck by the way so many others also feel a profound personal connection to you. I’ve learned so much from you and hopefully absorbed some of the qualities you’ve modeled… your passion for sharing music, for listening to children and for noticing what others do. I’ll be walking with you forever more. Love, Jeanne
Dear Gwen, Aeden and Irene,
Thank you for sharing Tom with us for so many years and for taking care of him now. You know we are all here sending love, prayers and positive energy.
Dear Tom,
Anyone who is willing to share Dylan with a departing interim pastor deserves to have rhubarb sorbet, dances of new life, and a lot of nice critters surounding them. From the perspective of a belly the size of an eigth month pregnant and muddled thinking this definitely falls into the not fair category. Who can I complain to?
Thankyou for falling into the category of someone so beloved that you are the only person I have written to.
Jennifer R
Tom,as I was putting my children to bed tonight I spoke of you and we sang one of your many, many songs. My oldest son asked, "How old is Tom Hunter Mommy?" I said, "He is ageless. He will live forever in his songs, in our hearts and in our memories."
Thank You!
Noelle Thompson
Roseville Community School
Hi Tom,
The last time we talked, we shared how important intimacy was, especially at this time, for you. Your story was not easy to hear! Your many stories spoken and in song, have impacted me, our faith community, our town, our children in such positive and wonderful ways. Your personal friendship with me has added so many new dimensions to my life. I am grateful, sad, and a little angry. Yet Joy will win out, for you... in my life! And you are one hell of a room mate. Much love to you, Gwen, and the rest of your family
Oh Tom, Gwen, Aeden, Irene -
I finally spent some time on the phone with Billie Ognenoff and was able to cry instead of just walking around bumping into walls. I have told people for years that NWTC has been the most successful, most radical event I have ever gotten to participate in, creating profound changes in key lives that echo through the lives of thousands more families through the years.
I have delighted in you since I first heard the Shirt Song half a lifetime ago, sung for years in backyards and living rooms, but when I first watched you speak and sing at camp, in deeper dimension, I was awestruck. Still am.
I am very pleased that I was able to come to your last Christmas Eve at the Mount Baker, challenging as it was, and see you again step up to the plate in a big way, changing hearts and minds, making room for everyone, in the most matter of fact way.
You've lived a big life; you've used your time well. You're leaving this world a far better place than you found it.
Now the focus narrows to just the steps ahead. You have a chorus of knowing, loving voices all over this planet to sing you home.
----
And if I fall short of my goal
Someone else will take a hold
May the songs I have sung
Speak for me.
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...Feed me to the wind
So that I may be
Part of all you see
The air you are breathing.
I'll be part of the curlew's cry
And the soaring hawk,
The blue milkwort and the
sun dew hung with diamonds.
I'll be riding the gentle wind
That blows through your hair
Reminding you how we shared
In the joy of living.
- Ewan MacColl
Love/Fl!p
Dear Tom,
We have met on several occasions at the Big School and each time you have touched my soul. Several times I have stopped just short of reaching out to you- longing to continue the connection, and let your warm presence further nurture mine. You move me in your quiet way of holding space for emotions to live. Your songs, your stories, your willingness to be real, and the depth of your willingness to hold sacred the small moments. It is your songs that I go to when I'm struggling to feel and your voice that calls on me to love and laugh and cry and be large. So now, I'm reaching out to say "hello" and "thanks" and to let my warm presence reach out and nurture yours. P.S. I've always secretly envied the receivers of your songs-just an idea... also tonight I'll sing for you.
love, Tamara Roseville Community School
Dear Tom and family,
It is clear that you have impacted many, many lives. You are a special man, Tom, and we are all richer for knowing you. Your love and compassion for children, your music, your wisdom and your spirit will live on forever. Please find comfort in knowing that your voice was heard and that we are working to make this world a better place. I am in prayer for your comfort and strength, and that of your family. Psalm 73:26 reads My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion forever. With love, Lisa Nivinski, Rocklin, California
Tom,
Last night we went to Bev's. We sat around the table and talked of you. It was the same old table we have sat around so many times with you and it felt safe and warm. We told stories, shared memories, laughed and cried. Every once in a while someone would shake their head and say it isn't fair. Then we would be silent for a bit. The silence was ok, you had taught us that. A time for quiet, a time to reflect, hope and pray. We Love You Tom Hunter.
Carrie Leeman
Dear Tom,
My thoughts and my heart are with you and your family. I think of you and smile. I hear you sing and my spirit lifts. You have taught me much and continue to inspire me. Your wisdom and laughter, your stories and advice echo through the walls of this preschool. You have touched the lives of so many families here, certainly mine. Thank you for sharing yourself.
Lynn Fox
Roseville Community Preschool
Dear Tom,
My thoughts and my heart are with you and your family. I think of you and smile. I hear you sing and my spirit lifts. You have taught me much and continue to inspire me. Your wisdom and laughter, your stories and advice echo through the walls of this preschool. You have touched the lives of so many families here, certainly mine. Thank you for sharing yourself.
Lynn Fox
Roseville Community Preschool
Dear Tom and family,
Know that you are in my prayers. Know that you are cherished by folks across the UCC. Know that nothing can separate you from the love of God.
Blessings and Peace,
David Holden
Dear Tom,
From the moment I met you at the preschool during Good Stuff, 17 years ago, you have been an important part of my life.
My first realization of that is when my daughter Suzy sat in her room at age 4 and sang her soulful version of "When I'm Sad I Cry" because her Granny had moved away.
Most recently I felt your kinship as we talked before your workshop at National about how hard the year had been for me.
You have a way of focusing in on what my heart is feeling without me saying a word.
I am a better teacher, wife, mother and friend thanks to you and your wisdom, and of course your one liners that make me laugh till I cry.
I love you and am praying for you and Gwen, Aeden and Irene.
My Family sends all of their love and hopes.
It's my turn to sing that song that gave Suzy such comfort.
Love,
Kelly Anderson
We are both brought back to the evening in our back yard when you/we sang into the night under the stars with all the other teachers who were there. Your songs and stories have touched the lives of many and we feel blessed and honored to call you both mentor and friend. Sending lots of love from two more well wishers in Upstate NY.
-tom and lisa murphy
Long before I ever set foot on Lummi, when I lived in Monterey, California, I used to listen to Tom Hunter on KGO, a San Francisco talk radio - he had a Sunday morning religion program. I was raised religious indifferent at best but I found his words, his perspective, his wisdom, his compassion, his gentleness, his kindness, his voice compelling so repeatedly went out of my way to tune him in and listen. Then I heard him one day when we went to a special service on Lummi's church and I realized to my amazement it was the same man and that he remained on his own elevated plateau - plus he had a simply delicious singing voice. Later when he was on the board with me I realized the depth of his humble integrity and his deep-held care to help others.
It saddens me to hear your news as he is one of the very special, very good peoples.
If you have a chance, please give him my love and my positive thoughts. And, if possible, give him a big hug.
Dear Tom and Family,
Vince Brown sent me news of your current journey. You don't know me well, but your songs and presence have touched my heart. In reflecting on your name, "Hunter"--yes a hunter of hearts and songs and children of all ages. Not only did you hunt, you found and loved and cherished and brought forth the best in people. Truly, you are also, Tom, the Giant Hearted. May you be blessed and the thousands of blessings you given return to you a thousand-fold in your journey.
With love and appreciation.
Nina Redman
Dear Tom,
The rich timbre of your voice goes deep and remains with me, always; full of strength, authenticity and love. Thank you for the shared moments of fun and laughter.
Peace and love to you and your family who you always speak so fondly of!
Love, Cheryl
Where to start??? I just heard the news and I'm in tears! I hope you have some incling as to how many folks you've touched throughout the years. I feel so blessed to have had the opportunity to hang out with you, talk with you, laugh with you, learn from you, pray with you, reflect with you, wonder with you and most of all, sing with you! You are an inspiration who has touched my heart, challenged my thoughts and inspired my soul! Thanks so much for sharing your gifts with all of us! This world is a better place because of you! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Know that we love you and we keep singing!!!!
With MUCH LOVE,
Teresa Antonelli and Family
Hi, Tom,
Well, for the past 20 or so years I've thought about you maybe 2-3 times a week and now I'm thinking about you 2-3 times an hour. Just know that dozens of your friends from the gulch are ready to rock you to sleep tonight and every night.
I'll keep thinking about you.
Godspeed, my friend.
Wenda
I have seen Tom sign so many times that I can't remember them all. what I do is that every single time he touched my very soul. We were lucky enough to have him visit us at the Universal Studios CCC, and my teachers still ask when he's coming back. Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you all, and we will keep singing. Thank you for all the love, music and joy you have brought to all of our lives. We will never forget you!
Tom and Gwen,
I was so moved by our conversation in the airport in Chicago at NAEYC last November. You both gave me comfort and courage on so many levels. I think of you often.
I just learned about your health Tom and I wanted to let you both know how much you will be missed by me and so many people in ECE. You have inspired me personally. Made me laugh, cry and most of all, SING!!!
Thank you for touching my life Tom!
Maggie Brower
Bright Horizons Family Solutions-Seattle
Tom, Gwen, Aeden & Irene –
I don't even know where to start with this… first and foremost; you are all in my prayers and in Justin's.
Tom – you have blessed my life in so many ways - being a great friend to our family for so many years, being such a loving and devoted father to one of my best friends, and being the pastor that married me to my husband. You truly are one of God's great gifts. I cannot thank you enough for the gifts that you have given to me since the moment I first met you – and your family.
I will never forget the time we spent together before Justin and I were married. You told me that you wanted us to all get together and meet to make sure that you officiating our wedding was the right thing. I remember saying, "Of course it is – I know I want you to do it" – and you lovingly responded, "The meeting isn't for you, it is for me – so I can make sure it is the right thing for me to do". You wanted to make sure that Justin and I were making the right decision. I will never forget that. I knew when I walked down the aisle and saw your big grin, that not only did we have the blessing of our families, we had your blessing as well – and that meant more than you will ever know.
You have given so much to this world – touched the hearts and souls of so many – and you will continue to do so for years, and generations to come. As Justin and I begin our family, I am so anxious to share your music with them.
Thank you for being such a blessing to this world.
Love to all of you,
Justin & Carrie Hall (Palmer)
Dear Tom,
Thank you, thank you for all you have done in your lifetime for children of all ages. You and I have spoken several times at conferences, and you have inspired my teaching at such a deep level. In turn, I am a community college professor who touches the lives of at least one hundred teachers each year. Your voice has carried and lifted me, my students, and the children we love.
If I had a thing to give you, I would tell you one more time, that the world is always turning toward the morning.
God bless you.
Lila Snow
Tom and Gwen,
I just heard the news. I want to tell you how moved I have been since out conversation in the Chicago airport last November. You gave me strength and courage on so many levels. You both have a way of doing that for so many, many people. I think of you often and now I will even more.
Tom, thank you for being an inspiration in my life to laugh, cry, and most of all-to sing. Peace to you and your family.
Maggie Brower
Dear Tom and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your poor health. We had such a ball when you came to sing with us at preschool several years ago. The families and children loved singing the "old favorites" as well as some of your hilarious new songs. Everyone was energized by your joyful approach to music.
We will be thinking of you, and listening to and singing your songs. Thank you for the fun you bring back to singing!
Your friends at The Orinda Preschool TOPS
Tom and Gwen,
This is hard news to hear. You will be in my thoughts for a long time to come!
Thank you for sharing your gifts with the rest of us. I have been inspired by you in so many ways. You have taught the world to laugh, to give, to sing and so much more.
Peace to you and your family!
Maggie Brower
Dear Tom,
I don't have a lot of words to say except you taught us lots of stuff about living. I'm sure you will teach us how to make this transition with your usual style and grace.
One of my favorite ad guys is Kevin Roberts who wrote a book called Lovemarks. It's about those things we care deeply about beyond all rationality and reason. It’s because we humans are powered by emotion and not by reason. You powered our emotions. You are a true lovemark.
Peace
Michael
Dear Tom, your stories and songs remind us how good we can be, and how we can care for and encourage each other -- and you are cared for by so many.
You tell us that the best thing we can give others is to share ourselves -- and share you do.
You teach us to listen -- to our own inner voice, to our children, to our parents, to our elders -- and you are one of the best listeners ever.
You help us know that we all need to be loved, that we are all special, we all have special talents -- and you are indeed special, and talented, and loved.
You know I love you to hear you sing "Magic Penny," by Malvina Reynolds. Here's the first verse, which will always be the essence of Tom Hunter to me:
"Love is something if you give it away,
Give it away, give it away.
Love is something if you give it away,
You end up having more."
Here is a prayer that I hope will comfort you.
O God of such wonder, it is my utter delight to be able to talk and walk with you each day.
Sometimes I come racing into your presence, full of news and chatter and excitement.
At other times it is enough to simply sit and be, gently touching the hem of your robe.
When I do not have the words to speak, then you surround me, lifting me through the worst.
And when I am in distress, you understand and slowly walk with me.
So I offer to you my prayers, O Lord, with all the love in my being, both those that tumble out loud, and those that are whispered in my heart.
With much love,
Margaret Bikman
Tom,
I don't know if you remember, but you gave a wonderful keynote speech at Child Care Resources Luncheon several years ago. People still talk about it! It was definitely one of our most memorable luncheons because of the heartfelt message and the creative way you delivered it. You have made a difference! We are thinking about you here at CCR.
Nina Auerbach, CEO
Seattle, WA
Dear Tom, you have taught me so many things: how to openly express love, anger, appreciation, sympathy, empathy and much more; and now you give me reason to demonstrate how well I have learned from you. I can only do so by letting you know how much we all love you and appreciate your endless contributions to so many groups and individuals and causes. Your gigantic footprint in/on this world should provide you peace and solace as you reflect on your unbelievable array of accomplishments.
Give Gwen a big hug for Phyllis and me. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Charlie Self
Dear Tom,
In Long Beach CA, last April, We missed you at CAEYC. I had read about your returning to UCC as a working minister and understood, but still missed hearing you rant about the changes needed to be made, the way we need to listen to kids, to get out there and take a chance, sing when you're off key, laugh, live, love, cry, grieve... remember. All the things you've told dear friends and people like me who consider you a dear friend even if I only see you at workshops and conferences once or twice a year. I am among the 1,000's of people who consider you a dear friend because you validate all I want to be. I'm one of those teachers you talk about that's good with death and grief... Except not so good this time around. I just heard and am still angry and not ready to lose one of my major role models. Except it's not about me. Tom, please know how much you have changed the world and all you touch . You are a force of good in a world in need of good. Your force will continue in all the big and small ways you've shared with us about what's really important. With all my love and respect.
Linda Wilson
My husband, John, thanks you for your "My Turtle's name is Fred", as was his turtle. It's his turtle's story and makes him cry every time he hears it. Champion of kids and turtles, that's you!
Tom,
I remember vividly the first time you talked and sang for us in Seattle at our Bright Horizons Professional Day. It was a time in my life when I was feeling very stressed from every possible direction. You sang and talked about listening to children and making them feel like they belong. It struck a chord with me and calmed me down so I could see what was important again in my life. I don't think I ever took the time to tell you thank you so please let me do that now. Thank you so much for your wisdom, your words, your humor,and your voice. Thank you for your inspiration and for the way you understand the world and the way you so graciously share your understanding with all of us. Thank you for caring about children and the teachers and families who guide them.
Thank you Tom,
Ruth Fidino
Bright Horizons Family Solutions
Tom,
You have delivered well remembered keynote addresses and trainings for faculty who work in our Seattle Area Centers. You are a fun, reliable and valuable resource. I feel lucky to have had the honor to meet you, work with you and have you as part of my life in early childhood.
Thank you for all you do to make us better teachers! You are appreciated.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lora Duncan
Dear Tom,
I want to thank you for meandering through the gate to be our wandering minstrel so often over the years. Your songs, stories and laughter have inspired us to do and be better. I know they have for me.
I've been humming "Angel Band" all day and thinking of you.
With much love,
Jonna Hall
Roseville Community School
Tom and Gwen -
You are in my thoughts and prayers and all of those whose lives you have touched by your songs, laughter and love. You got me out of my seat, on my feet, singing and reaching for stars I didn't know where there. You are a blessing and a gift. I think about you often....this darn disease - someone must need you more.
Maureen Hodge
Bright Horizons - Seattle
Hi Tom,
I met you in Iowa City last year at your conference, with Kelly Mathews. My favorite song of yours is "Build it up and Knock it Down". I like how it teaches kids that you can always make it again. That they don't need to get stuck on the loss, but focus on the strength of what they can create now. They often build something better than before, if they can let go of the loss.
It also makes me think about how much that "Build it up and knock it Down" is our entire life cycle. We create, things change, we create, things change. I send you light, strength, and love for the unknown changes that lie ahead for you. May they bring you to a better place than you are already. Peace, Adina Levitt
Dear Tom,
You are a lively soul. Your music, songs and stories are great and wonderful gifts to so many people. The first time I listened to your music I was 23. It was one of your first albums on record from the 70's. I listened to it over and over. I cried, laughed and was carried through difficult times.
Then I became a preschool teacher--and to my surprise, I had the honor of meeting you. I remember thinking that any child would be so blessed to have you as a father and I knew then where your songs really came from.
Now I am a mother of two, and I bring my children to see you play concerts here in Santa Barbara. My children love your music and feel proud that they have seen you singing the songs we know so well. You make us all happy.
Please know what deep, authentic, and pure emotion you allow others to find in themselves-you remind us what it means to be human. Thank you for your dedication to our young souls and for helping the older ones remember being young. You are deeply cherished in our family and we will continue to sing and sing and in your honor.
Love and Light,
Erin Boehme
P.S. My 5 year old wants to know if it is messy to "hold the children's hearts in your hands"? We learned what a metaphor was that day!
Dear Tom
I wanted to send you my prayers. As I read the other notes to you and thought of what I wanted to say, I keep reminiscing about all of the times I have seen you speak, sing and share your wisdom with so many people. You have truly made such an impact on my life and I know thousands of others can say the same.
I keep thinking back to the time you came to The PlayHouse and played your guitar while the kids drifted off to sleep - that is such a wonderful memory. I also keep thinking of the numerous conversations we have had through the many many years I have gone to Good Stuff. One of the best parts of the conference for me was just sitting in a circle and reflecting with you about the weekend. Just know that your songs have touched so many lives and still touch so many children's lives everyday.
I hope you know how much you are loved
Stacey Braaten
Tom, Keith Pentz here--just got the news about your diagnosis. Sorry to hear things have veered in that direction. Know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers--I'll put you on our church prayer list, too. A lot of Mennonites don't wear those prayer coverings for nothing!!!! But seriously, I'll never forget our first time meeting each other those many years ago at the conference where you and I serendipitously sat together and listened to Dr. Jean. We had such a great time doing the "Singin' in the Rain" and our paths have continued to cross many times. I sent the message about your diagnosis to Pat Conte--my boss--who I know you have worked with to create the Math CD for our company math kit. Please know that Kaplan Early Learning will also be wishing you well. Take care my friend--Keith
Dearest Hunter Family,
Every one of you has made a huge impact on our family, since the day we came to Bellingham. From parties, to concerts, to baby-sitting to music lessons, our relationship has been, and continues to be, a wonderful gift. Every time I hear or sing in my head a Tom Hunter song (which is often), I remember my favorite anectdote: "Is this a real song, or did you write it?" Well, Mr. Hunter, your songs are very, very real. Thank you so much.
Love,
Ken Bronstein & Family
Dear Tom,
It wasn't till I met you when I was well into my forties at a Bev Bos workshop that I learned that I could sing. You taught me to not be afraid and I carry that with me always.
Keep singing,
Love Paula Hefter
Tom, You have been such an inspiration to me. You are my hero. You changed my life and I will never be the same.
I have attended your workshops over the years over and over again. I never take the same workshop again unless it was one of yours because I always get so much from you. I go back to my classroom so regenerated, so envigorated..
I love your positive personality. I love your philosophy about life and kids. They have made a huge difference in my life. Not just professionally but personally too. My life is better cause of you and your songs.
The last workshop I went to I bought the CD Many a Mile. I sang and listened to that CD and nothing else for a week and a half. It was so wonderful so great! There were some songs from my childhood that I had lost, with only faint echoes stirring in my memory till I listened to that Cd. The world is sure a better place for you and your music. I send my love and prayers to you, Know that you are in my thoughts. Thank you for all you have done for me. God Bless Mary Ann Evango
Tom: Your heart and soul have touched me and my family in so many ways that I will forever hear your voice and love. The first time that I met you was in the context of helping create an amazing foundation that gives so many people hope and resources to fulfill their dreams. But then I got to know you as a teacher in helping Nooksack School District realize that music is a way to a child's soul. How we loved to have you there singing and playing with our children in the school district. After that you made sure that Julia had a place in the music world with all of the 300 musicians that would show up for your wonderful holiday potlucks. Finally as the minister that married our daughter and helped create a marriage that was talked about with love and committment. You will be part of my life, in the lives of the children of our community, in the next generation of the Cara and Chris's marriage and of the Foundation's work that will continue. I am a better person for knowing you and feel priveleged that you shared so much of yourself with me and my family.
I am sure we will meet again and I look forward to that ear to ear smile and wonderful laugh that made me smile every time I would see you.
My love always,
Cheryl
Tom and Family,
Tom you have inspired me to be the best child advocate I can be. You have taught us how to stand firm and kind, strong and soft, peacemakers and trouble makers. Thanks for your dedication. May your time be spent is a bath of love.
Pat Chambers
Tom, I am so happy that I had the pleasure to meet you at Good Stuff and that I whined until Benton County Empowerment brought you to Iowa. We will continue to sing your songs.
Barbara
Dear Tom,
I can only try to express what your voice meant to me back when I was a middle-schooler hanging around your house with Irene. Of course, your songs are great; but your everyday speaking voice, like a smile in sound, full of wisdom and kindness, and, above all, humor, set an example I hope I'll never forget. Thank you.
My thoughts are with you, and with Gwen, Aeden, and Irene.
Love,
John Michael Halliday
Dear Tom, Gwen, Aeden and Irene,
A tidal wave of remembrance has rolled over me as I hear of the difficult journey you are traveling. I remember so many things, so many times, so many big people, so many children, so many smiles we have shared over the years from Asilomar to Amherst. I am in awe of your life and will continue to hold your strength, vitality, resonance and laughter in my heart and mind as I think about you day in and day out. Your songs light up my life today as they did so many years ago.
Please know that you are deeply loved and that you have touched the very core of humanity in a way that few people can claim to have done. You have transformed so much and so many. I love you for all you have given and will continue to give through your music. I also love you for all you have been open to receiving through the fullness of your incredible spirit. Thank you Tom.
Robin Jurs
Hi Tom,
Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. There are so many thoughts and memories of times with you racing through my head. I remember when I first met you at a Good Stuff Conference...and it proved to be a big turning point for me in understanding what children needed and how we needed to pay attention and "hang around". It was also a personal turning point as we shared stories about the difficulties we had growing up and that gave me comfort and strength. At the last Good Stuff Conference we shared another moment as the words you shared about your own struggles as a child, brought me to tears. You came over, with a hand on my shoulder and said, "Let the memories wrap their arms around you" and again, you brought me comfort and strength. You have helped me become a better father and I will always be grateful for stories you shared, the lessons you taught, the comfort you provided, the memories we established and the songs you continue to sing. I don't know if I ever told you this but there are two songs I learned from you that I use almost every day in my meditation (Take a Breath and Oh How Lovely). They remind me of the feeling I have when we spend time together giving me strenth and comfort. You taught me that it's ok to cry, that the eyes are the "window to the soul" and the tears are what make the window clean...I'm guessing there are a lot of clean windows out there right now. Tom...you hold a special place in my heart!
Sending lots of love,
Steve Antonelli
dearest Tom, Gwen, Irene and Aeden...such a blessing that you have each other...love, hug, sing, cry, tell stories, love, love...of course, Tom, that is what you have done for all of us for these years...you have filled our lives with what we need to love, care for and teach those young ones in our lives...thank you for being our story, our song, our giggle, our moment...know that you are loved by all of us! your spirit is a gift! Kathy Holguin, SCAEYC
Dear Tom...all the Beals remember the days when you and your brothers lived with our parents in Minneapolis. What a man you have become! Some of your music graces one of our family videos. You and all your family are in our prayers.
With love, Bob & Polly Beal Pattison
Dear Tom...all the Beals remember the days when you and your brothers lived with our parents in Minneapolis. What a man you have become! Some of your music graces one of our family videos. You and all your family are in our prayers.
With love, Bob & Polly Beal Pattison
Dearest Tom,
As I sat with my little boy last night and we feel asleep listening to your new cd "Many a Mile" my heart was full with the many memories I have of the time we have spent together these past 20 years. You will always and forever be in my heart and part of my soul. I am a better daughter, sister and mother because of you.
Love always and forver Robin Leeman
Dear Tom,
I have been fortunate to hear your music many times and been so jazzed by your passion. Please know that my prayers go out to you & your family.
Thank you for passionately sharing your gifts and inspiring so many.
Love Donna Weishampel
Dear Tom,
As with so many of your friends, this news shakes me to the bones. My bones knew from the day we first met so many years ago that you were one of those people who touch this world with a passion and an uncanny ability to build a sense of community amongst the many people you meet. I love you, my friend, for your peace, for your big, open ears, for the impish shining light in your open eyes, and for the willingness to share that light with the worlds young and old. As so many have said, we are all better human beings because of our time with you.
As with the story you once told me of the island and it's ferry boat captain lost in the fog, your community of friends is calling out to you to help you find your way to whatever home is next. If we're not there when you get there, just sing or tell a joke and, no doubt, voices will join in song and laughter from all over the universe.
We laughed till we cried and also cried till we laughed. Even today as my heart ached for you and your family and my tears of grief were this time cried alone, I remembered a joke you told me years ago and it made me smile in my grief. I gladly admit to choking out the punch line aloud through my tears: Tom Hunter, "you should have used Johnson Nails!"
Good travels, my friend, and thanks for the joy.
I love you,
Tom Pease
To my dear friend.
I heard the news today. Please know how much you are loved; how much I love you. I have been remembering the times we spent together; short moments really, grabbed here and there at conferences and seminars, just easily talking about life and children and life and songs and life and teaching and life. Just little snippets of your musings and ideas and wisdom and dreams.
You have lived a precious life and have given freely the many gifts you have to all of us and we have all been blessed just knowing you. You have been an inspiration and a mentor. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
You will be loved always,
Carolyn Tripp
Dear Tom, Gwen, Aiden and Irene: I am pretty inept at email messaging, and it took me several days to just figure out how ultimately to post some words for you. Tom, you would be laughing if you were here to see me struggling with this machine.
Tom, Suzanne and I always looked forward to the times we spent together here in Santa Barbara when you swung through town. The phone would ring and there you would be on the other end of the line. The last time you were here, and we were sitting around in the living room floor bumping from one subject to another, you said that it was like we were just picking up our conversation from where we had left off a year or two before. That was so true. We have shared a lot together: glee club with Bruce, winter weather in Massachusetts, and struggling with not feeling a complete fit in our school life. And tumultuous times back then. You have always looked for the truth, and in music you have created an honest, truthful and creative life that has also knit together a real community. That is obvious from all the postings on this blog. And you have a family that loves and supports you. Few people have all this. You and Gwen were so open and welcoming when we visited you in Bellingham many (it seems like) years ago. Music is such a deep part of life meaning, and you have drunk that cup to the full. I am very happy that we know each other and have spent our time together. We send you and your family our prayers and our warmest wishes. Keep the faith.
Love,
Peter and Suzanne
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Dear Tom-
My name is Maggie Roesser and I am Teacher Cheryl ’s daughter. Your friendship was important to my mother and she spoke of you fondly. She introduced me to your music as a child and it rocked me to sleep many nights. Now that I’m almost grown up, your songs remind me of a treasured time in my childhood that I still sing along to. When I listen to your music, I can hear the expression in your voice and envision the story, without having to see you perform it in person. That’s why your music is so unique.
Thank you for your music, voice, inspiration, and most importantly, thank you for being a special friend to the most important woman in my life.
You and your family are in my thoughts.
Love Maggie
Tom; I have been reading TS Eliot's Four Quartets and thinking of your ordination in Lee, oh, so many years ago. In the interim you have filled so many hearts and minds with the "extraordinary," the "challenging" and the "sublime." Fare Foreward," friend. Linda Clark
Dear Tom, Gwen, Irene, and Aeden,
I just read Bev Bos' newsletter and was so sorry to hear the news. I have been listening to and drawing inspiration from you for probably 25 years. You came to my school (Lake Wilderness Elementary) about 20 years ago, to give a workshop. It happened to be the day that I found out that a pending adoption had fallen through. I debated about whether to stay for the workshop or just head home. I was so glad that I stayed...you brought so much comfort and release especially when you sang "Rock me to sleep". May all the people (young and old) who you and your songs have and will continue to touch bring you and your family comfort. We all love you. Thank you for being you!
love, Sue Connell, Kindergarten Teacher
P.S. We did end up successfully adopting another baby who of course, is the perfect child for us. He is turning 18 this month!
Dear Tom,
Your presence pervades my mind, heart and spirit these days. I look at the photos posted and smile and cry. I am so saddened to know of your illness -- your life is and has beenso beautiful and rich for me and this community. We honored you at the Whatcom Human Rights Awards Banquet last Friday and remembered how we are "embarrassed by blessings" of you.
Deep peace to you, Gwen and family.
Shirley Osterhaus
Dear Tom and Family,
I can honestly say the world is a much better place because of you...you have touched so many people through your music and teaching. Thank you. You are amazing.
Liz, Joe and Quinn
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